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I have reached out to parents and teachers to ask them what the Biggest Struggles are with Back to School!
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Here is a round-up of my top 5 tips most helpful for you and your battle against Anxiety!
2. Mindfulness: This is a post I wrote a while back on my 3-2-1 approach to fighting off anxiety.
3. Change Your Thoughts: I teach teens and children this technique. Our thoughts are what drive our feelings. Our feelings drive our behavior/reaction, and the circle continues. Instead of thinking “this is going to be a horrible day”, change your thought to a positive one! You could change it to “OK-this is a new day, and I’m going to make it a good one.”—“That was a bad dream, but it wasn’t real.”—“1 bad thing is not going to ruin my whole day!” See how I did that? More on this later…
2. Apps! Click here to find apps that you can use as tools while you are working through your anxiety and depression. (Note: These are not to replace therapy, if needed, but to aide you in your ability to overcome your struggles.)
5. Talk it out. This may be with a friend or a therapist. Having meaningful connections can ease so many issues we struggle with. You need someone in your life who gets you and who accepts you. If you have no support, let me help you find it.
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When teaching a child this technique, there are 2 different ways I approach it, depending on the child’s age, developmental level, and comfort. Most children are open about practicing techniques in front of others, but older children may feel a little weirded out when you start asking them to perform belly breathing in front of you, especially if they already have anxiety.
Trick #1-Teaching deep breathing using Bubbles.
I have a pack of bubbles in my office like this one that I can hand out to children in sessions. I have the child blow bubbles and discuss how hard/soft to blow to get lots of bubbles or big bubbles.
I then suggest this as a trick to help them fight off their worries or (fill in the blank)-tummy ache, jitters, etc.-most of the time children cannot label anxiety/nervousness/worries. But they can tell you what somatic complaints they have easily, which is a sign of anxiety depending when and how often it’s occurring. (Please be advised that tummy aches do not mean your child has anxiety. If you are concerned your child may be experiencing symptoms of anxiety, schedule an appointment for further assessment with a Pediatrician or Mental Health Professional.)
Trick #2- Teaching Deep Breathing using a stuffed animal
Have your child lay down on his/her back comfortably and place a small stuffed animal on their belly.
While directing them to slowly breathe in through their nose and out their mouth, guide them to watch the stuffed animal move up and down on their belly.
This will teach them belly breathing, and they can visibly see if they are breathing correctly. Most times, this is modeled for the child by first doing the technique and then asking them to teach it back to me. Children love to be the teacher! I always end a session reminding them to teach their parent what they learned. This keeps parents involved in progress and helps them hold the child accountable to practice daily.
Alright, that’s it-2 simple ways to help your child practice deep breathing!
One of the most common tools I teach teens and adult clients is belly breathing. It is one of the most successful tools when treating anxiety and fear. This trick can calm you down quickly and can be used ANYWHERE, which is what I love about it.
Before you practice this technique, I want you to imagine your belly is a balloon….
When air is blown into a balloon, it inflates. So as you breathe air in, your belly will inflate like a balloon.
When you release your breath, your belly should deflate as a balloon would when slowly losing air.
Step 1: Find a comfortable place to sit or lie down.
Step 2: Clear your thoughts
Step 3: Take a slow deep breath in through your nose, slowly counting to 7, while focusing on your belly rising.
Step 4: Hold that breath for 2-3 seconds.
Step 5: Slowly release your breath, counting to 7, while your belly releases air.
Step 6: Repeat for 1 minute.
The trick to this technique is that you are breathing through your belly—Not— your chest.
A relaxed body cannot be an anxious body…
More on how to teach deep breathing to your child in the next post…
I woke up this morning feeling not so great. My jaw and shoulders are tense. I have a tingly sensation in my body. I sit and think what is wrong with me? Then I remember the bad dream I have and the people who are in it. I’m experiencing anxiety at this moment. I tell myself “I’m really anxious”. So I work through ways to decrease my anxiety.
Yes! I suffer from anxiety just like many other people do. I’m hear to share with you ways to overcome your anxiety. I teach adults and younger people many different techniques to manage their anxiety.